Sierra, you know that I get where you're coming from on this. But as they say, friends are friends because they will tell you what you don't want to hear; now, I'm telling you to give Mrs. G a hug. Step back a minute, and just read her last post. She needs whatever your male name is this minute, not tomorrow, not next week, but right now. This is the character test time, show her what you are inside, and just reassure her that you're the same person she married. Forget about the dressing, forget about your gender identity, just give her your heart.
