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    Have you ever been caught cross dressing?

    Have you ever been cross dressing and what did you say or do? I was discovered by my teenage son. I was so embarrassed I ran out of the living room to my bedroom. Later I never explained to him what I was doing. I didnít know what to say. I still wonder if he remembers and what he thinks about having seen me dressed up.

    Today I was thinking about what to do if I got caught again-- it could be by a neighbor looking in my widow or possibly just a stranger on the street. I would tell them my wife and I have been having sexual problems and that a therapist suggested to my wife and I that I dress in womenís clothes in order to stimulate my erection. So if you see me dressing in womenís clothing, it is just part of my therapy and by the way it is very successful. To further make this story successful I was thinking of starting on line a rumor that cross dressing is a lot better method to get hard erections than Viagra. From the Viagra TV ads there are lot of desperate men who will be tempted to do almost anything for a good erection. (I myself canít blame them for I have the same problem.) So men all over the country start cross dressing like crazy and I will be able to go out in public crossed dressed without anybody even thinking odd about it.
    If I wanted to know where I am going I wouldn't be wearing this blindfold.

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    Just do what I do when ya get caught ,,, Hey ,, Take this camera an if ya dont mind snap a few pictures so I can show all my friends on CROSSDRESSER,com ,, THANX !!! hEYYYYYY it took along time to get all dressed up ,,,Im not going to waste it !
    Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,

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    First what you do isn't illegal or wrong and thus getting "caught" is in your own frame of mind. If that is the case then maybe you should quit doing things that you fear will get you in some sort of trouble. Unless you do it to get a rush by getting caught.

    Next when it happens the best thing is to just own it. When you take control the other person cannot spin it or make it something it isn't. Be willing to talk with (don't let them control it) them and answer any questions honestly. If you allow them to take control you won't have a chance. In the case of children who are old enough to understand, then it is a perfect time for a life lesson. Not everyone is the same. The world is made of all sorts of people. You cannot judge a person by what is on the outside, but what is in the soul and heart. It is also a perfect time to find out if they are willing to let their peers make decisions for them as to what is acceptable and what isn't. When you teach a child to think for themselves they make better decisions.

    Yes it is embarrassing when you get "caught". It is the same feeling you get when you take that last piece of cake, or break the speed limit. Funny thing is that it does not make the world spin any differently. The world does not hinge on the clothes you wear. It can hinge on how you decide to handle it. Just think, you lie to your child about it or keep it hidden, what message do they get...it is OK to lie and hide.

    Edit: and I have to add...making it out to be a sexual perversion or enhancement is not really helpful. You continue a stereotype.
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    My mum came home while I was dressed once, didn't even ask what I doing. I think she thought I was bored and just messing around as to her I'd seem like such an unlikely person to be doing this. It was a few years ago now and it's never been mentioned, I still wonder about it sometimes
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    Not in the classic, erotic story sense. Long, long ago, my mom found some of my things...that's about it.

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    Yes I have been caught before and it had a bad ending. No pictures for the forum and I was forced to through my stuff out.

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    I guess you could say that, my wife walked in on me once years ago while I was in pantyhose and a bra. Aside from the fact she wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day, that was it. You have to expect it's the nature of the "beast" especially if we are not open about it and constantly live on the edge. I don't do that any more, wastes too much energy.
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    My secret has been discovered, but I've never been caught red-handed before. I came very close, once, though. I used to love wearing lingerie and then going through my roommates huge closet and trying on her dresses while she was gone and modeling them for myself in the mirror. One day she came home unexpectedly while I was still in her closet. Thank GOD it was a 2 story home. I had time to put her clothes back and run into my room and lock the door. My heart was beating crazy fast!

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    I don't know if it qualities as getting caught but a co-worker stole my jump drive off my key chain; which had pictures of me dressed on it. He emailed the pictures to a dozen of our co-workers and also HR [Human Resources] , trying to get me fired. Of course it backfired and he got fired for stealing and causing personal injury at work. Still it was quite an ordeal to go through. After the initial embarrassment, I found out that nobody really cared, and almost all supported me during the HR investigation. That was a couple years ago and it has become old news at work. I actually made a couple new girlfriends that were curious about my feminine. We have lunch now and then.
    Even thought I have been outed; I still am conservative at work. Male cloths only, sometimes clear nail polish, light makeup, and a few pieces of feminine jewelry. Nothing that would cause any undue notice.

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    I've never been seen dressed by some one who shouldn't see. But, years ago my daughter of 13 at the time bounded into my room without knocking and I had just got out of the shower and was butt naked. It was only a quick glimps before she slammed the door back shut and screamed "OMG, I can't ever un see that" "sorry daddy". I told my kids when they were young, "I sleep naked, never enter without knocking or you may see things you don't want to see." LOL I guess she forgot for a second, she never forgot again though.

    Interestingly enough, her mother and I divorced a few years later and she had come to stay with me for a few days when she was about 17. "mother nature" came to visit her while she was at my house and she only had g-strings packed with her. She came to me and said "I feel wierd about asking but I have a issue, you wouldn't happen to have a pair (or) two of panties I can borrow would you?" Of course I did and I gave them to her and it has never been mentioned since.

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    Katie. So glad that jerk got what was do to him. And things worked out for you.

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    Katie. that's just wrong what your co-worker did. That's why you can't trust anybody in a workplace. You never know if such information can be used to backstab you or have someone fire you. I'm glad things worked out for the better.

    Is being "caught" the same as being "outed"? I can understand that there are those of you who feel the need to hide your crossdressing from your wife because of the implications and consequences. Everyone dresses for different reasons.

    Brenda, do you really need to tell people your bedroom issues, or can you just proudly say that you have a transgender side?

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    I've been caught several times by my mom and each time it's been about the same, a lot of yelling and my things either being thrown out or hidden. Usually after she cools off she ask a bunch of questions but I never handle like I really should.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LarrissaMurray View Post
    I've never been seen dressed by some one who shouldn't see. But, years ago my daughter of 13 at the time bounded into my room without knocking and I had just got out of the shower and was butt naked. It was only a quick glimps before she slammed the door back shut and screamed "OMG, I can't ever un see that" "sorry daddy". I told my kids when they were young, "I sleep naked, never enter without knocking or you may see things you don't want to see." LOL I guess she forgot for a second, she never forgot again though.

    Interestingly enough, her mother and I divorced a few years later and she had come to stay with me for a few days when she was about 17. "mother nature" came to visit her while she was at my house and she only had g-strings packed with her. She came to me and said "I feel wierd about asking but I have a issue, you wouldn't happen to have a pair (or) two of panties I can borrow would you?" Of course I did and I gave them to her and it has never been mentioned since.
    wow! thats some father-daughter bonding that I NEVER would have thought of!
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    Quote Originally Posted by RileyEvans View Post
    I've been caught several times by my mom and each time it's been about the same, a lot of yelling and my things either being thrown out or hidden. Usually after she cools off she ask a bunch of questions but I never handle like I really should.
    I never got the yelling, just that "boys weren't supposed to wear that" and "are you gay?" type stuff.
    Did it work? I'll give you 3 guesses...

    Actually, it wasn't as bad as the time my mom found my gay porn stash but that's another story for another forum.

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    It has not happened to me yet. In your case regarding your son, I strongly recommend that you talk with your son directly and don't hide something that he obviously saw. Lying to him is wrong as said above by Lorileah. You need to maintain a very good level of honesty between you and him. As for your other fantasy story/lie, again I strongly recommend you discard that. Anyone and everyone will see directly through that and probably think less of you for your making up such fantasy that really makes no sense. I do hope it all works out for you.

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    Wow, I must push the envelope or am incredible sloppy. Was caught as a kid. typical mess. Have run into neighbors years ago when I was keeping it a secret. One place I lived the neighbor would sit and watch me go about in my place. I didn't realize the curtains were so thin one could see all. Had a new neighbor walk in on me as I was relaxing after carrying in everything. He walked around showing me the place and yard. He never said a word about the dress or nylons I had on.

    My wife outed me to all her friends. A little too much caused a slip of the tounge. Some were shocked others didn't care. We stayed friends with everyone. I think we worry about it too much. Yes, it causes some to not feel comfortable out of their percetions about gender.

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    last fall, my 13 year old teen girl came home for school early than i thought she would, i told here i was practicing for halloween, actly i was, so miss that turn. OF COURSE I HAD TO DRESS ON HALLOWEEN, AND THE WEATHER WAS GREAT FOR A SHORT SKIRT.
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    I was caught fully dressed by my wife -- bad scene. I recount the incident in the writers' forum ...

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    I have and it was extremely awkward for me. My grandmother caught me. After a long night from work I was tired but I couldn't sleep. Everyone else was asleep. So decided to just wear my out fit, which was this orange blouse, black mini skirt stockings and even my heels. I was playing video games and for some reason I forgot I was still dressed. So icut the game off and fell asleep. Next morning my grandmother is waking me up scared out of her mind. I wake up just as scared. She kept questioning what happened to me. She was worried if I was out like that and on drugs. I didn't know how to respond so I acted confused myself (which didn't work). She assumed they were my girlfriends clothes so I played along and said yea they were. I instantly went to the bathroom and showered thinking about how I'll explain myself. When I was done I told her the partial truth. That the clothes were mine and I went out to a costume party. She kind of bought it and said " I hope that'll be the last time...I like the shoes though"

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    I was actually caught while undressing by my wife a few months back. She came home about an hour earlier than I expected, so I was just starting to undress and clean up when she came home. She started to walk into the spare bedroom where I have all my clothes (drab and femme), and I slammed the door back in her face out of panicked reflex, then once I finished stripping and throwing my stuff in the closet (yeah ironic), I let her in. I calmed down after a few seconds, realized she probably wouldn't judge me, and admitted what I was doing... and she didn't judge me. :P It did lead to the usual conversation (what do you get out of it, does this mean you're bi, etc), but that went very calmly and well, so it all ended up ok.

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    My mother caught me, so to speak, when I was a senior in high school. She found some of my clothes and my step-sister's things in my closet. She brought it up when it was just the two of us in the house and was understandably curious. I wasnt completely forthcoming with her because I was caught so off guard, and just told her every now and then I liked to dress and it wasn't that often. Of course Kaite has evolved a lot since then and when feeling girly I like to go all out with makeup and fake nails, but I had tried to make it sound like it barely ever happened at the time. What was great though, despite how incredibly awkward it was for me to sit there, she said she just wanted to be sure that I knew that no matter what it meant to me, she and our family would support me (i have the greatest relatives hehe). So ya, that's my story.

    Also, I am almost positive my old college roommate saw me wearing fishnets to bed. He wasn't supposed to be home that night and came back while I was asleep. He never said anything, and come to find out he's in the closet about being gay. Basically, we're both good friends and I think we have just both kept each other's secrets.

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    I was discovered by my aunt when I was about 12 and she surprisingly offered that if I ever wanted to dress that I should just let her know and she would help.
    Of course at that age I was so scared the world would know that I never did take up her offer, to my great regret today.
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    Around 12 I was caught dressed by my father, it was in the mid 50's, I got a cold stare, and a warning to never be caught like that again, and I never have. I also had to tell my older brother, after my first wife outed me in court during our divorce, he just asked me what we where talking about, whats a Transvestite, I explained what it meant, he said, Oh, that was all, after that he never mentioned it again in his life, not to anyone as far as I know. That was the only times I have been caught, or had to tell when I didn't plan to.
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    i get cought every time i go out...life is better now that i dont have to worry any more.

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