I am 35 and my SO is 39. We met when I was 17 and he was 21. I am attracted to men who CD. I always have been. I have tried to convince anyone I've ever been with to wear my clothes and there have been successes and failures in that area in my past.But this is the first time I've actually been with a CDer. And what's weird is that we've been together twice before and he never told me. But I'm very glad he did. It's not that I am "okay with CDing". I am attracted to it.
Lisia lives with me now, but is travelling a lot for work right now, and this weekend and I really rather sad and disappointed by this. It's pouring down rain, and the only reason I didn't drive to Dallas to be with my SO this weekend is because we have to sick pets.And the rain just makes me more lonely, so I thought I would come on here because I haven't in forever...
But my point was, for a while there, I was coming home from work, and Lisia would have been looking for a job all day, but when I got home, he would be all dressed up for me. My closet is entirely open for the pickin's and Lisia would try to keep me guessing... and it made me feel very special. I'd walk in and there would be my 'lady' with a glass of wine in hand for me after a long day, just standing there wearing heels, and stockings and long hair and a miniskirt with an open mouth full of wine flavoured kisses. I've said things like this before on here and people have thought that this was something that I was making him do or that there was something twisted about our relationship because I liked it so much , because I have openly voiced that I LOVE seeing him dress like this, but no, this was all just a fun thing he was coming up with to do for me. Ohhhhhh he was just always sooo pleased to see my reactions.![]()
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Here is the direct answer to the question though, that was indirectly answered in my previous paragraph. It's because of the effort. It's because of the interest in BEING attractive. It's because of the vulnerability. It's because of the hips and the softness, and the hair, and the lips and the taste. It's because of the things I say sometimes casually about something feminine like how I put on mascara or something and then get an honest and interested response like "Oooohhhh, that's why you do this first" or something. It's the interest.
But also, I think maybe it's because my father is also a crossdresser.
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