Caught by the R.I.D.E. Program...and lived to tell the tale

[Leslie Langford]

As some of you may know, the R.I.D.E. (or Reduce Impaired Driving Everywhere) is a sobriety testing program for motorists used by police in Canada. It involves roadside spot-checks that typically appear during the holidays to catch drunk drivers, but the program lasts year round and may be randomly applied.

Police roadside spot-checks are usually set up on major roadways, off-ramps, or on side streets leading to major arteries where traffic is funneled into one direction and there is no means of avoidance once one is caught in this trap. Tunnels and underpasses where these road checks are not visible until one is practically on top of them are among other favorite spots. Kind of like shooting fish in a barrel...

All cars are stopped, and questions are asked. If a driver is suspected to be DUI, the officer may request a roadside breathalyzer test. Spot checks usually consist of several cruisers and pylons to direct cars into the area. Tow trucks may also be on standby to remove any vehicles with drivers caught drunk.

Well, long story short - I was caught in one of these R.I.D.E. checks after I left the ANTM ("America's Next Top Model") event held at the Metro Toronto Convention Centre last Friday, and which I reported on in another thread earlier this week:

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...ce!&highlight=

Upon leaving the convention centre, I had taken a small side street to avoid the main traffic, and lo and behold! - I suddenly found myself face-to-face with one of these R.I.D.E. Program stops! Of course, my initial reaction was "Oh, sh*t - how do I get myself out of here?", but I also quickly realized that taking any evasive action would have been totally counter-productive and would have just attracted their attention with who-knows-what? consequences. So I sucked it up, proceeded forward, and decided to let the chips fall where thay may. It wasn't so much that I was worried about the drinking aspect - I hadn't had anything stronger to drink all evening than a Coke - it was more about how the cops would react to me and the way I was presenting, and potentially hassle me for it.

Well, I needn't have worried. When I approached the actual stop, rolled down my window, and the officer stuck his head into my car within 6" of my face to see if he could detect any hint of liquor on my breath, I simply replied that no, I hadn't had anything to drink that night and gave him my best (if forced) smile. He then took a quick look around the inside of my car, said "Thank you Ma'am - go ahead!", and waved me on my way.

In the end, this spot check turned out to be a total non-event. It was also a fitting - if unexpected - end to an otherwise fabulous evening, and just the icing on the cake. Needless to say, it was also a huge ego boost to my ability to blend in (pass?), and if ever I had any lingering doubts before, they are all gone now...

[SabrinaEmily]

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Congratulations on apparently passing, though.

[RADER]

That was a great story, glad it worked out to your benefit.
That happened to my wife many years ago; On New Years Day, about 2 AM. she was coming home from
babysitting the Grand kids. She got stopped by a road side check point. Since like yo, the only thing she had
drink was a Soda Pop. The Policeman asked where she was going, Home from Baby Sitting the Grand Kids.
Good night and Happy New year he told my wife, She responded Happy New Year also.
Those Check points are a good thing, Keeping those DUI off the road lets others live a lot longer.
Rader

[Cheryl T]

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Migrating to the U.S. in no time??? Where have you been?
We've had random roadside sobriety checks in NJ for decades. I've never encountered one dressed, but I certainly wouldn't worry about it as when I go out dressed I do not drink.

As for the Police State...well, I would much rather have them out there getting the drunks off the road then having them clean me off the tarmac after some drunk T-bones me. They have a job to do simply because people are not grown-up enough to obey the law. They pick and choose which laws they think apply to them and let the rest of us suffer the consequences and the expense of their immaturity. This is evidenced simply by driving on any road, especially the interstates. It's easier to count those that adhere to the law than those that don't.
When we can all respect each other and obey the stipulations that society has agreed upon then the police won't have a job and you won't have to worry about the Police State. Until then, don't drink and drive, slow down and obey the speed limits and let them do what they get paid to do.

[Lori Robins]

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Yeah I spose it is way safer to have drunken and coked up idiots driving where ever they want. Have a talk to the people who have to deal with the consequences of this when things go wrong, like the EMTs or better still family members killed by these morons. Give me police-statism anyday!!!!

I'm glad you had a positive experience Leslie, its something I've always wondered/worried (?) about when I am out and about.

[Barbara Ella]

Great story Leslie. And what a way to boost the confidence, makes that smile even wider I bet.

Certainly not a police state activity as it really does protect us all. Shame the courts dont have as proactive of an attitude when they catch a DUI who causes an accident. I guess they are gradually getting tougher, but not enough. Illinois sucks.

Barbara

[Piora]

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Congratulations on apparently passing, though.

Yeah I spose it is way safer to have drunken and coked up idiots driving where ever they want. Have a talk to the people who have to deal with the consequences of this when things go wrong, like the EMTs or better still family members killed by these morons. Give me police-statism anyday!!!!

I'm glad you had a positive experience Leslie, its something I've always wondered/worried (?) about when I am out and about.

Migrating to the U.S. in no time??? Where have you been?
We've had random roadside sobriety checks in NJ for decades. I've never encountered one dressed, but I certainly wouldn't worry about it as when I go out dressed I do not drink.

As for the Police State...well, I would much rather have them out there getting the drunks off the road than having them clean me off the tarmac after some drunk T-bones me. They have a job to do simply because people are not grown-up enough to obey the law. They pick and choose which laws they think apply to them and let the rest of us suffer the consequences and the expense of their immaturity. This is evidenced simply by driving on any road, especially the interstates. It's easier to count those that adhere to the law than those that don't.
When we can all respect each other and obey the stipulations that society has agreed upon then the police won't have a job and you won't have to worry about the Police State. Until then, don't drink and drive, slow down and obey the speed limits and let them do what they get paid to do.

Lori and Cheryl.....you said everything that I would have said in response to that. If a small inconvenience such as being briefly stopped at a R.I.D.E. program means that they can pull these brainless drunk cretins off the road - MORE POWER TO THEM! Such a small price to pay. Those drunks they stop and keep from proceeding MIGHT just save YOUR life, Sabrina. Or perhaps your brother or sister, or daughter, or Mother....... Need I go on? We also have an organization up here in Canada called M.A.D.D. (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) and it is an absolutely awesome organization. They help victims and victims' families cope with those tragedies, and also sponsor events to target these self-centered morons who drink and drive .

Leslie, sorry - I don't mean to sidetrack your thread, but I just feel that is so very important to talk about this. <steps off soapbox>

Back on track - I'm thrilled for you that you obviously passed as a woman! I'm sure that it was a bit of a heart-thumper for you, but next time, you won't sweat it! Thanks for sharing that experience with us.

[UNDERDRESSER]

I read Sabrina's response as sarcastic humor?????

[BLUE ORCHID]

That was a great story ma'am yes I've had an O $#!+ moment like that too.

[TxKimberly]

It's little events like this that have made me as confident and outgoing as I am these days. The VAST majority of the people out there really couldn't care less what we are wearing or how we choose to present ourselves. In almost all cases, WE are the only ones that are stopping us from getting out in the world.

Frankly I get irritated when I hear people talking trash about the police out there. I'm sure that there are a few bad apples, but the majority of the cops out there are good and decent people trying to do a difficult job, and they have absolutely no desire to make life harder on us ASSUMING of course that we aren't drinking and driving or "street walking".

So now you have another confidence building event under your belt - you met Johny Law and he did care in the least what you were wearing. LOL

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Congratulations on apparently passing, though.

Oh hell, that stuff has been going on here in the states for at least two and a half decades that I know of. I remember check points like that when I was a very young person on the Army and driving in Oklahoma in 1984

[SabrinaEmily]

Lori and Cheryl.....you said everything that I would have said in response to that. If a small inconvenience such as being briefly stopped at a R.I.D.E. program means that they can pull these brainless drunk cretins off the road - MORE POWER TO THEM! Such a small price to pay. Those drunks they stop and keep from proceeding MIGHT just save YOUR life, Sabrina. Or perhaps your brother or sister, or daughter, or Mother....... Need I go on? We also have an organization up here in Canada called M.A.D.D. (Mothers Against Drunk Driving) and it is an absolutely awesome organization. They help victims and victims' families cope with those tragedies, and also sponsor events to target these self-centered morons who drink and drive .

Leslie, sorry - I don't mean to sidetrack your thread, but I just feel that is so very important to talk about this. <steps off soapbox>

And the state of constant surveillence of which this is a part, with all the other destructive actions it will take toward people's rights (and has already taken), might well cost me my life.

"Necessity is the plea for every infringement of human freedom. It is the argument of tyrants; it is the creed of slaves." -Pitt the Younger

More to the point, it's not a choice between this and doing nothing about drunk driving.

So, Underdresser: you were mistaken.

[Marleena]

Glad it went so well for you Leslie. It could have ruined a "most excellent day" for you. You passed.

[Daphne]

Glad it went well for you Leslie. I for a fact know I would have been scared sh*tless if it had been me. I was going to make a comment regarding what SabrinaEmily posted, but I don't want to turn this into a argument, and get the mods angry, so I'll just say nothing.
Again, Im glad things went well for you.

[RiverdanceGirl]

I've been stopped by the R.I.D.E. program. It's no biggie. A nice police officer asks you how you are doing and how is your day, then asks if you've had anything to drink at all. Last time I told him I'd had a beer with my dinner but that was 3 hours ago. He gave me a coupon book and told me to have a good day. I don't have a problem with it. On the holidays there are quite a lot of people who have accidentally overindulged and need to be taken off the road temporarliy. And they also catch people who are well liquored up and have no license/insurance. That's good too. Being pulled over while dressed by a police officer in Ontario, I wouldn't worry about it. I might be nervous at the time but they're good guys and have been trained well.

[Stephanie47]

These roads side stops have been around for a very long time. Some states even have stops to test the mechanical worthiness of a vehicle. These stops are one reason why I do not drink even one sip of alcohol when driving en femme. No sign of alcohol on the breath means no reason to make any further inquiry. I also make sure my car is in working order for the same reason; lights, etc

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Congratulations on apparently passing, though.

[docrobbysherry]

Nice post, Leslie! It's good to point out to our members that if YOU'RE NOT DOING ANYTHING ILLEGAL U SHOULD HAVE NOTHING TO FEAR from authorities! And, being out dressed is NOT illegal in most Western 1st World Countries!

[giuseppina]

Reading about this police-statism makes me sick. And it'll be migrating down to the US in no time, I have no doubt.

Congratulations on apparently passing, though.

Your comments are a bit much. Perhaps if you had a relative killed or maimed by a drunk or otherwise impaired driver you might have a different opinion.

Somebody tried to challenge the RIDE program on constitutional grounds as infringing on security of the person and freedom from unreasonable search and seizure or something to that effect. They lost at the Supreme Court of Canada, which ruled that RIDE programs were a reasonable infringement of rights and freedoms. Canadian courts don't make such rulings lightly.

[Maria Blackwood]

There is no correlation between the use of sobriety checkpoints and reduction in DUI fatalities. In fact, fatalities were bottoming out when checkpoints were declared (barely) constitutional and began to see widespread use. They have accomplished nothing.

http://www.duiblog.com/2005/04/19/

Whether or not I have had a friend or relative killed by a drunk driver is completely irrelevant. All that matters is the numbers.

The DUI checkpoints are a scam for cops to get easy overtime.

http://www.fullertonsfuture.org/2010...eckpoint-scam/

[mikiSJ]

DUI checkpoints, while very much an annoyance if you aren't drinking, are worthwhile. I am really lucky the three or four times I have been really drunk and driving as I managed to get where I was going without injuring or killing my passengers and other drivers.

I wish I could move to Vancouver, BC. The second best city, after my birthplace San Francisco.

[Contessa]

Leslie

So who were you going to make think you were a man in woman's clothing? I could tell you were a woman the first time I saw your avatar. Why would any guy go to the ANTM show anyway. So just because I am not an officer of the law doesn't mean I don't know a woman when I see one. Please keep moving ma'am and don't try to pretend that you're really a guy when we know better than that. You looked very nice I'm sure as you do in your avatar. Anyway have a wonderful day my dear.

Tess

[debbeelee1]

I'm glad everything worked out for you Leslie! My wife and I absolutely never drink and drive. One of us will be the designated driver and the other the desegnated drinker if we do indulge! Both of us have CDL's and that means that our legal BAC is half of "normal" folks, even when driving a car (0.04% here in Ohio!).

Unfortunately, crossdressing and drinking at bars seems to go hand and hand. I can't even imagine being caught drunk driving while en femme, being arrested, processed and throw in the drunk tank with a bunch of drunks while dressed! I'm sure the media would make a "newsworthy" event out of it too!

[Claire Cook]

It's little events like this that have made me as confident and outgoing as I am these days. The VAST majority of the people out there really couldn't care less what we are wearing or how we choose to present ourselves. In almost all cases, WE are the only ones that are stopping us from getting out in the world.

I think Kim has really hit the point of this thread. Folks have a lot more to worry about than whether some guy is wearing a dress.

[Foxglove]

Well done, Leslie! That's keeping cool!

Here in Ireland there's such a culture of drinking that when "The State" began cracking down on drunk driving, people everywhere were moaning about it, as if driving while drunk is a human right. I remember one time on a weekend I was out walking early in the morning, and I saw a car stop and the driver and passenger got out and exchanged seats. That puzzled me until I looked up the road and saw a police checkpoint. (In Ireland the cops are still out at 7 or 8 AM, because Irish people go on drinking so late that the ones who are drunk are still going to be drunk at that time.) In other words, the driver knew he was going to get nailed at the checkpoint, so they quickly switched. That sums up the Irish attitude: there's nothing wrong with driving drunk, just do your best not to get caught at it--and don't worry about other people who might pay the price for your drunkenness.

That's why checkpoints are necessary. And it's very nice to see they're looking for drinkers, not nice girls like Leslie.

Annabelle

[SabrinaEmily]

Your comments are a bit much. Perhaps if you had a relative killed or maimed by a drunk or otherwise impaired driver you might have a different opinion.

Somebody tried to challenge the RIDE program on constitutional grounds as infringing on security of the person and freedom from unreasonable search and seizure or something to that effect. They lost at the Supreme Court of Canada, which ruled that RIDE programs were a reasonable infringement of rights and freedoms. Canadian courts don't make such rulings lightly.

I don't agree. Besides, I'm not Canadian.

I would hope that the circumstances of my life would not cloud my judgment on what is permissible for a government to do and what is not.

There is no correlation between the use of sobriety checkpoints and reduction in DUI fatalities. In fact, fatalities were bottoming out when checkpoints were declared (barely) constitutional and began to see widespread use. They have accomplished nothing.

http://www.duiblog.com/2005/04/19/

Whether or not I have had a friend or relative killed by a drunk driver is completely irrelevant. All that matters is the numbers.

The DUI checkpoints are a scam for cops to get easy overtime.

http://www.fullertonsfuture.org/2010...eckpoint-scam/

The only one supporting me on this is also a fellow My Little Pony fan? Cool.

Thanks for that Thomas Paine quote on the blog you cited: "It is the responsibility of the patriot to protect [their] country from its government." (OK, slightly altered for gender neutrality.) I'll remember it.

Anyway, I don't drive much, so I wasn't aware that these were already everywhere. I guess it's later than I thought.

[Piora]

There is no correlation between the use of sobriety checkpoints and reduction in DUI fatalities. In fact, fatalities were bottoming out when checkpoints were declared (barely) constitutional and began to see widespread use. They have accomplished nothing.

I cannot attest for the state of California, or any other state in the US.....but I suspect that your facts are wrong. Logic dictates that you are, because they DO pull dangerously intoxicated drivers off the road on our RIDE program up here. Why it wouldn't be just as effective elsewhere, as it is here, makes no sense.

Whether or not I have had a friend or relative killed by a drunk driver is completely irrelevant. All that matters is the numbers.

Sure...... that's what you say NOW - but let's just hope that you never have to suffer that experience. I think you'd change your mind rather abruptly.

The DUI checkpoints are a scam for cops to get easy overtime.

Pffffttttt! "EASY" overtime? I've been through RIDE programs where the cops were standing out in pouring rain and freezing drizzle.....traffic whizzing by - and they STILL managed a cheerful hello. Yeah, right....love to have their job.......

http://www.fullertonsfuture.org/2010...eckpoint-scam/

The above blog? Did you read it all? I quote:

"patrons at downtown bars were spreading the word… intoxicated drivers should drive around the checkpoint on the way home."

Well, duh! Yeah, not too effective when that happens, is it? Don't you think they would have caught a lot more if that hadn't happened? Up here, at Christmas and New Year's Eve, people were warning others by Tweeting the RIDE locations on their Blackberries and IPhones. I wonder how one of those people might feel if they found out that a drunk driver avoided the RIDE stop that way, and went on to kill 2 people - a family on their way home from visiting friends. That happened in another city near mine, and a passenger with the drunk that caused the accident said that was what happened. The drunk read the Tweet on his phone. He had no sympathy for his "friend" that put him in the hospital, and was responsible for 2 deaths.

Enough said.

Anyway, as this has strayed from the original poster's thread, I'm sure that it will be closed by a Mod.