Purging? I don't think it will work for 99.9% of us. If we so-call purge I think the "urge" will come back stronger than before. I envy the younger people. Years ago (even as few as 10yrs. ago), there weren't near as many resources of information on CDing or TGing, or wherever one falls into along this spectrum...
you young ones are luckier today than some of us older ones. There's so much more available and alot more acceptance today, but still a long ways to go.
Now , back to occupations. I have took on some manly occupations and looks in the past trying to suppress the CD. It just doesn't work. I have been an MP with a mostache. I have cut tobacco while with a beard. I have done bodywork (I mean cars!). I currently farm. I have logged, butchered, carpentered, painted houses (I think GGs are the best at it), done machinist work, and it goes on and on... I am now in RN school which may be considered by some a bit wimpy, but more men are getting into it now a days. What I am trying to say is that I think now matter what you do, including occupations, that CDing just can't really be suppressed.. so why even bother purging. You most likley will regret it in the long run. Just a little bit of my opinion and exerience I want to share. Amanda