My wife and I were lounging about on the sofa on a rainy day last week. I was partially dressed (clothes, but no makeup or wig). I couldn't help but marvel at her acceptance, and also be grateful for it. I thanked her for her understanding of who I am. Her response was something along the lines of "your dressing is part of your authentic self, and to deny that would be oppressing that wonderful person".
I love that woman!