Here we go again. been there, done that, same story.
You meet someone real, real nice, fall in love, everything [almost] is going so well, But at a certain point, a few months in, she says
"I don't want to be with a cross dresser. You need to choose." she says, " It gets in the way of intimacy, look at what it's doing to your life. it's secretive; Do you really have a life ?. Your choice "
and in many ways I can see her point. I look inside and the thought of suppressing a part of me that feels valid, relevant and important just ain't gonna fly. I've tried purging several times, and for me and many of us here it doesn't work.
But the thought of loosing a precious friend and lover is equally daunting.
It starts to become a pattern and the question is , 'To thine own self be true'
or compromise for the greater good.
This just happened to me yesterday, and I have a few days to look deep inside
before answering. To make it harder , she said "I hope you choose me, I love you"
Just sayin'...........