PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE people, let's keep this civil... the whole premise of this thread is sure to cause controversy if it's taken too personally...
Out of boredom, I was about to post a gimmick thread of "what color panties are YOU wearing?" when I remembered a conversation with a non-trans non-cd member of our local support group. We are open to any LGBT, but the people who show up are usually transsexual or there to support transsexuals.
We also had someone visit our local group, Nikki Araguz, who has been in the news recently. I'm sure you can google her name and find out why she's been in the news for the past two years. She identifies as intersexted AND transsexual and was expelled from an intersexted group because she also identified as transsexual (she is the widow of a firefighter, who's previous wife brought to light that she was transsexual in an effort to get the dead husband's money). They only want people who identify solely as intersexed and want nothing to do with transsexuals... which prompted my questions...
ANYWAY! the cis-woman member of our support group (may have been a founder, not sure) and I were talking about our acceptance of cross dressers in our group and if the term transgender should include cross dressers. However, since cross dressers, by definition, identify as the sex they were born as, are they truly transgender? They don't have any internal struggles with their identity. They are male, like being male and simply like women's clothing for one reason or another. Should they be included under the transgender umbrella even though they have no actual internal gender identification issues?
I wanted to see if we could start a civil conversation about this... and I am posting this in the public transsexual forum so cross dressers can take part in this.
Mods, if I am crossing any lines here... please let me know. I would like to have an honest discussion here...