Ladies,
I wanted to share another of my theories into human psychology. We all grew up with this thing in our brain that told us to be feminine. Well at least I believe that we all were born with it, but that is a matter for a different debate.
So while we are growing up there is a conflict with what our brain tells us, and what our environment tells us. Outside stimulation tells us that we are boys, and boys don't do feminine things, don't wear feminine clothes. We develop a line in our heads that represents the boy side from the girl side.
We become very aware of the line, and we know what we believe crosses the line. Wearing panties, even under our clothes crosses the line. A slight hint of makeup crosses the line, shaving anything crosses the line, and on and on.
And it is that line that rules us. Things that other men can do, we can't because we know it crosses the line. Example, many men get manicures and think nothing of it. If we did it, we would see the feminine aspect of it and know that it was over the line. Body builders keep their entire bodies clean shaven, if we did it it would be way over the line.
Now here is the real problem with this. When we do anything over the line, we believe that EVERYONE see it, everyone will think to themselves "he just did something feminine". We can go outside with paints under our jeans, and we still feel like everyone is looking at us, that they 'know', even though it would be impossible for them to.
It is this awareness of of our line, that forces so many of us into hiding. It drives the fear that controls so many of our lives.
Think about it, where is your line? and think about this, does anyone else besides you really know about that line? Does anyone else really care? Do they care anywhere near as much as you think they do?