I have no problem with God. Ha, I pray to Him, I believe in Him, love Him and I suspect he may even care for me. But I DO have a problem with the Christian churches. They tell people what is right and wrong, how to life their lives and how to get into heaven, based on very flimsy human interpretations of religious texts. They claim that in certain matters, they can't be wrong, since God is directing them. Well 'I' claim that's a load of rubbish.
Yes, you say 'God created us this way, He can't be wrong, right?'
They glibly say 'Yes, he did create you this way, but only so you can do the RIGHT thing by NOT doing it. THAT'S how you'll go to heaven.'
And remember, you can't argue, since they can't be wrong.
Yet I look at the past of, say, the catholic church, at all the mistakes it has made, the atrocities commited, the murders sactioned, the wars backed for human gain, the politics, the things sold by popes to rip people off (like papal indulgences), all the 'human' touches God clearly didn't 'authorise', all the things the church has said sorry for, and I think 'The church, in my opinion, by its past actions, has lost its right to dictate what is morally right and wrong.' I find myself wondering how God feels about all the bad things done in his name. Does the church really have the right to decide, over and above God, who goes to heaven? (They claim so, since Jesus gave Peter the metaphorical keys to heaven.)
Well, that's my rant!
Sammy, I really do feel for you, it's a horrible situation. Please don't feel that this will definitely mean a life alone though. I know it always feels like that, I felt that for many years when I was single. I always thought 'why would anyone want someone defective like me?' Then I met someone who did want me, and who slowly convinced me that I'm not defective, just different.
I'm not trying to convince you either way, it's your life to live, but please remember, neither path has to be totally black, and whatever you DO do, you never know what's going to happen next. Sometimes good things happen.
Take care
Maria
xxx