I know that a lot of the cross dressers and TG and TS folk on here seem to idolize feminine curves, and what feminine curve is more admired than an hourglass? I have to tell you ladies (as I assume the gents are less interested in this sort of body shape talk) that there are problems with EVERY shape.
For example, I was at the mall trying on clothes for the first time in months. I pulled on this top which had a wide waist band of cotton lace, a princess neckline and a pretty floaty hem... Designed, I thought, to emphasize the waistline. Once I got it on, I realized that it completely missed my natural waist by several inches, squeezed under my arms and between that and the floatyness in the lower portion of the shirt I looked either four months pregnant or kind of like a stuffed sausage. Eep! It is actually pretty hard for me to find shirts that fit my waist and then get big enough for my hips, or are big enough for my hips but don't have enough material at the waist for a second person. Add in the fact I am less happy about my upper arms than I would like, and it is difficult to find clothes sometimes.
There are other items I have a hard time wearing: dropped waist shirts and dresses, hipster belts, high necks, those cute shirts with the cravat -y collars you can loosely tie, skirts that hit my knees, wide straps on halter tops or tank tops... There is a long list. On the other hand, someone with more of a triangle shape looks super cute in a lot of those!
I like my figure a lot, despite having issues with what I can wear and feel the most confident in. It took figuring out what worked with my body rather than fighting it, but I truly think anyone can find a good fit on their clothes.
How about you? Is there a style you have found works for you? One you would like to wear but can't pull off? Have you figured out how to best love your body?