When I said that "crossing is painful," I felt I'm not accepted in my family. It just happens I'm wrong in some ways. Listening to Boz Scaggs on my tablet contributed to my sadness, which I finally got through my head.
I managed to talk to my mom about my suicidal mindset, all because I crossdress. She says I can be accepted, and that people are homophobic, especially my older brother and his GF. I was given the suggestion that I be careful how I react to being caught. If my extended family or a friend were to find out, I was told to say "f**k off" to them, or ignore it as if it didn't happen. It's good advice I received.
Meanwhile, I am working out a way to see a psychologist so I can get my problems out to somebody that no one in the family has seen in the past. If that happens, then it cannot be spoken of in front of big bro or his GF.
Am I supposed to take this with a grain of salt or is this good advice to follow? Well, at least I feel better about myself.