To say that I am disappointed wouldn't be right. It is an intrinsic part of my evolution as a human being to be open and accepting of all regardless of standards and preferences. Yet I can't help but feel overpowering notion that for majority of the community I am part of, absolute womanhood is a non existent virtue.
When I decided to transition, my entire being was bet against all odds, to get to the essence of the feeling I always carried within my heart and was so deprived of embracing. I wanted to be a woman, not mere representation, not half way between, nor adorned with cloth of opposite gender yet remaining fixed in my old ways, NO. I wanted to finally have her take the rightful center stage in the life until then, lived in deceit.
And I was sure such was the case for all the transfolks who were M2F, but now I see clearly that this is not the case.
I do try to connect, and somehow am drawn into sisterhood of transness but lately, have a hard time feeling at ease within testosterone driven trans environment. Most of the folks I have a pleasure to be with as I am finding out are still running with Testosterone levels of a teen quarterback, LOL, and their half way female impersonation diluted by the masculine nature of T makes for an undesirable social combo! Well, at least it feels like that to me!
I have a hard time connecting, and the sexually charged gazes coming from skirt wearing gals are somewhat a huge conversation turnoff.
I do not want this to sound regretful, but maybe it is, as I suppose, my naive nature and miss understanding of the community gave me wrong impression.
I so want to be an advocate for societal equality and acceptance, but as well, do understand that for such to truly take root , we need to present and represent civilized and poised.
Presently there are maybe 3 persons within entire group of maybe 40 folks who do seek womanhood the rest seems to play with the notion of femaleness yet have the sexuality so intertwined into the equation that clarity of resolve is non present!