A few weeks ago, I received a traffic ticket while driving to a lunch meeting in Dallas with a TG friend. There are a few things remarkable about it, beyond the fact that I was en femme at the time.
It's the first traffic ticket I've had in over 40 years of driving. No parking tickets. No speeding tickets. Nada. Yes, I drive that way.
The ticket says that I "ran a stop sign." The officer claimed I had rolled through the stop sign. I told him I thought that I had stopped fully. Of course, my words made no difference. But, I felt I needed to make the statement just the same. The officer had been standing on the sidewalk near the street corner; his patrol car was parked in a nearby parking lot. He simply pointed to my vehicle and waved me into the same parking lot. Apparently, this is a location on which he can depend when his monthly ticket quota is low.
I was polite and asked if I might receive a warning, in light of my driving record. As expected, he said no and wrote the ticket. I received an unreadable carbon copy of the handwritten ticket.
I've been unemployed for many months and money is extremely tight for me. So, I began researching the possible costs of this. It will cost me between $250 and $300, if I plead guilty and pay the fine or pay for defensive driving. For me, this isn't chump change. It's a few weeks of groceries.
So, I went to the courthouse to get a readable copy of my ticket and determine what options I have. Having heard that Dallas police officers frequently don't show up for traffic ticket trials, I chose to plead "not guilty" and hope for that to happen. If he doesn't attend, the case will be dismissed. If he shows up, it will be my word against his and I will be found guilty. As the court date gets closer, I may change my mind about this.
The second remarkable part of this is the comment on the ticket.
When I looked at a readable copy of the ticket, it lists the typical information regarding offense, location, etc. But, then I saw that the word "crossdresser" was scrawled acrosss an area designated for "employer". While it was factually accurate as a personal description, I felt slightly offended, just the same. It seemed to me that this comment was inserted to prejudice anyone reading the ticket (Prosecutor; Judge; etc.), since it had nothing to do with the traffic violation. I said nothing about it to the court clerk who gave me the copy (she likely doesn't care), but, have been wondering if others have any experience or thoughts about this.
Anyone here have any thoughts on this?