Take her on a cross check. I mean take her to the mall gander at one of those cute dresses in the window and say "I wonder how I would look in something like that". hear what she says. At this point she thinks you will be joking. If she says somthing like "you better not dare", you know. If she says something like "lets find out" Its game on. NOTE if she is atracted to the loud, obnoxious, machismoed out, tatted up biker type, you dont stand a chance.