1. Do you always try to pass. 2. Do you try to get other peoples input or copy them. 3. do you follow fashon trends. 4. Do you follow your instincts to satisfy your fem side just do what you feel regardless of trends or fads. Myself I don't always worry about passing. Some times I'm just a guy with boobs in casual girls clothes. Although I Mostly try to blend in not over the top dressing, over the years Iv'e learned to follow my mood and relaxed and comfortable in and with my fem side I don't flaunt it (not a hottie). Be happy and feel normal that way. Life is much easier en-fem then my male side. Just happy go lucky every day working girl.