I have been read in public before. But what am not going to do is get ready to go and then go online upload a picture and then wait to get any comments on how I look. I go by my making my self up, and what I think Contessa looks like and how old she is. If as many of us actually went out that are actually out there we wouldn't have as much problem.
SissyStephanie says she goes out with out make up or wig and I admire that she knows why and won't let it stop her. If you can see that your beard is coming though your makeup then next time just try to do it differently next time. And getting read means people know that you a man. They don't know your name or exactly where you reside. Why worry. Do you remember every picture of a missing child on every milk carton you have ever seen.
Who or which one of you has not seen or used the word confidence, keep your head up and smile even though you know you've been read. It lets others know that you know they know and its okay and you are having fun. Do your best when putting on your make up maybe less is more in that situation. Or do even better next time. Try remembering this as I have typed it before ALL women are beautiful but not everyone is pretty". Practice makes perfect or at least better. I hope I am not out of line on this.
Tess