At times, life sucks. Don't know why but it does. At times life is nothing but joy. Don't know why that happens either. I don't think I earned either one of those things but I am convinced that both the good times and bad times are something that I pass through. Most of the time I pass through it looking like a guy, but sometimes I make the journey looking as pretty as I can. Sometimes it turns out that what happens has something to do with my crossdressing, but it takes a little time to sort out what really has happened.
My only suggestion Lori, is to be patient. I only know you through this site, but from what I've seen you deserve to be happy and need the opportunity to experience life with a bit of a feminine emphasis. We care about you and it looks like we are all in this together. Take a deep breath, sort out the problems, help your friend the best you can and keep moving. While other people may close doors on us, it doesn't seem to be a good idea to close doors and eliminate our own options just because the negative seems to be the trend.