A lot has happened in this last week or so. I had asked my wife to have our autistic daughter to write a poem about x-dressing. And she knew it was about me. How I'm not really sure. Come to find out her oldest son, that's been diagnosed with aspergers has known for quite some time. And a couple days ago her youngest son,12 adhd bipolar, walked in the bath room while I was taking a shower. And there on the floor on top my clothes were my forms, bra, panties. Naturally he had to run and tell mom what he had found. And it wasn't that big a deal cuz of the way my wife had raised them to believe. So yesterday I'm doing my laundry and takes it upon himself to put them in the dryer. Then tells his mother, not me, he put dads bra and panties in the dryer. Also yesterday my other step daughter was upset so I was consoling her. When she went to give me a hug she grabbed me right by the boob! " I'm always girl underneath" We kinda locked eyes but she never said a thing. I mean come on! Who next? A life long secret, with the guilt,shame and everything else associated with it exposed in a matter of days. I'm a little overwhelmed, worried, and strangely relieved.