Even in girl mode? I am mostly because I feel I should be strong as femal and male.
Even in girl mode? I am mostly because I feel I should be strong as femal and male.
You where born this way.
personally speaking, I'm not much of a "dominator" in male mode ... even less so in girl mode. Actually, I kind of like that aspect of girl mode, since it's not really who I am anyhow.
From the way your question is worded, it sounds like you are assuming anyone who is strong is dominant and anyone who is not dominant is weak. Even worse is if the assumption is all males are dominant. If that is what you are saying, please walk away from that stereotype or false assumption.Originally Posted by Madam Rose
Being strong does not automatically mean being dominant. Strength comes in many different forms and manifests itself in many different ways, and it is not gender specific or exclusive. Being compassionate, forgiving and able to compromise for the greater good often takes significantly more strength of spirit, mind and body than the opposite.
My answer your original question is no. I am neither dominant or submissive, and my strength does not come nor is it defined by being dominant over anyone or anything.
Last edited by Melissa Rose; 08-14-2012 at 01:00 PM. Reason: Added the last three sentences; fixed a misspelling
What she said.
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I may be strong in personality but I am flexible in the domination stakes.
If there is a very strong willed person in the group I will circle around and then strike if need be.
No use getting into arguments over personal views is there.
Just causes angst.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
I'm submissive as a male and shows even more when I'm dressed, but that's the way I am.
I asked my wife. She just laughed.
If I was to ask my wife she would tell me what to say........ lol
I don't look at my relationship as having either one of us as the dominate figure. we are equals.
Flip Flops were made for Beaches & Bath Houses, We have neither in 2017. Lose the flip flops!
I never was dominant in any relationship so why should that change when I am dressed?
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
I think Mellisa summed it up for me. Very well thought out response.
One of the joys of being Lori is that someone else can drive the bus and I can go along for the ride
The earth is the mother of all people and all people should have equal rights upon it.
Chief Joseph
Nez Perce
“Love isn't a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like struggle. To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now.” - Fred Rogers,
Well, there is right and wrong but in my world the following applies:
Rule # 1--Kate is never wrong.
Rule # 2-- If Kate is wrong, see rule # 1.
Second star to the right and straight on till morning
Does passive/agressive count?Female yet manly?
Lisa
"you are a strange species and there are many out there;shall I tell you what I find beautiful about you ,you are at your best when things are at their worst" ...[ Starman]
It may of course be a bit disturbing to sense that one is really not so firmly anchored to the gender one was born into.
I like the guy to be bominate.
Ha,,,,Ha,,,, Was you EVER ???
Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,
I'm strong enough not to need to dominate or be dominated if it is a contest between two wills, I resist by flowing around them and use questions to bring
anothers motives out into the light of day.
I'm not threatened by what others do for me because I'm not dependant on it and I do not allow others to become dependant on me, there is love and than there
is fear and it is difficult to tell the difference sometimes.
They can lean on me but I will not be someones crutch or use them as one.
Weakness of will or passivity is not femininity or masculinity but escape into childhood while being in an adult body
I need to be master of only one person - myself. I neither submit to nor dominate others, nor do I have any desire to do so - except for a little play now and then. I have the strength to be myself, despite the influence of others.
But Kelly said this so much more nicely. Beautifully done.
Miriam
Kelly, You are a very smart Lady and very secure in who you are. I feel very much the same.
I am very secure to follow someone's lead, until it conflicts with what I believe or until I am asked
to step up and assume a leadership role. This doesn't mean that I don't influence the world around me,
it just means I do it from the background. I only join the forground when needed.
I can live with that and be Happy.
I'm no different no matter how I dress!
I think it's relevant to tell us if your dates or your SO is male or female, Rose!?
Personally, I've done my own thing my entire life. However, on a few occasions where I've given the woman control, I've found it could be exciting or devastating!
U can't keep doing the same things over and over and expect to enjoy life to the max. When u try new things, even if they r out of your comfort zone, u may experience new excitement and growth that u never expected.
Challenge yourself and pursue your passions! When your life clock runs out, you'll have few or NO REGRETS!
About the only thing I am at all "dominate" in is my work; otherwise I am neither dominate or submissive.
Even the domination in my work is more that people tend to defer to my solutions because of my competence. But that doesn't mean that they "follow" me. The prophet in the wilderness
Yes I am dominant when dressed---not dressed I tend to be a regular guy
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Good for you! You're a feminist after my own heart.
I become impatient with wimpy ladies. lol
Reine
I think Melissa nailed it
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That's kinda how she rolls. ;-)
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