It's really impossible to label this. I'm only physically attracted to girls, but I can be sexually attracted to anyone sexi
It's really impossible to label this. I'm only physically attracted to girls, but I can be sexually attracted to anyone sexi
Personally I'm straight, but open minded. I won't dismiss the possibility but still wont say its gonna happen.
OK I guess I'll throw my vote in.
I am a straight crossdresser. I've been this way even before I knew what sex was (Tried on mom's heels when i was 5 or 6). I have always loved how women's clothes felt on me and looked.
Those porn sites and other social media sites are a poor source material. I certainly wouldn't write a paper citing my sources from any of those places.
I think part of the confusion here is that you'll see someone who says they are a straight CDer but you assume they are gay or bi because they have come onto you or another CDer, whereas you haven't factored in all the straight CDs that didn't. Also, sexuality becomes kind of vague when gender itself becomes more fluid. The reason many of us straight crossdressers can find another highly passable crossdresser attractive even though we know they are a man is the same reason we can be turned on by a drawing of an attractive lady. It is the image of a woman rather than women themselves
Bi-Gendered, Goth/Metal Fan, Atheist, Artist and British
I would have to say I am bi. I am only into guys while dressed as "Kelly". While in guy mode, I have no interest in men whatsoever.
I am only sexually attracted to women although I enjoy anal play and am honestly curious what the real thing would feel like...maybe in the right situation. That would have nothing to do with Crossdressing unless for some reason the top needed me to do it.
It is a good question if I were young and unattached how I would respond to a truly feminine crossdresser, I like to think I would have had as open a mind as I do today.
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Im straight and I have been dressing since 10 I love my wife but i also love to dress
I have been dressing enfemme since I was 6 years old, and I am now 80! I was married for almost 50 years to a dear lady who totally supported my crossdressing. Over the many years of being a crossdresser, as Stephanie I was out in public frequently. Many times as Stephanie I have been approached by men who obviously wanted to have sex. I have never done that and never will. I am a crossdresser, but I am still a MAN and always will be! And I believe that the majority of MTF CD's are totally straight!!
Stephanie
Lady on the outside, but man underneath!
TG folks, I see , are pansexual.
I've met many hetero & married TG folks, some who are just crossdressers , others who are transsexual.
I've met many bisexual crossdressers that are also somewhere of the spectrum of crossdresser and/or transsexual. FYI: one is transsexual, not is a transsexual. It's a mind or brain wiring issue.
MTF crossdressers that are gay, I swear the number falls off. You go into a gay club, and you can be admired by guys, but the numbers seem to be into the guy/guy action.
My advice is: don't compare yourself to others. Be yourself as you really are. Find yourself as you really are, and enjoy the journey of life.
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I'm not attracted to males. I'm sure if I saw a real good looking CD then I would say wow "how cute" but I wouldn't want to be intimate with anybody that resembled a guy ever.............................................. .................................................. ...............
I have been reading this post for a few days now. It looks like 20 to 30 % are Bi, bummer other wise i could fantasize more.
I think it depends on the circles you find yourself in. I think most CD's are straight by far..even quite a few TS that I know...But most of them are in the closet or at least not as visible! They are spread all over the place...Now if I go to a gay bar and meet my tgirl friends there, they all like guys! But that is a very small sampling of the tg population out there.
There are a lot of us somewhere in the middle. I considered myself totally straight when I joined this site. After a boyfriend or two, I am not sure about that anymore...even though I still prefer girls. But I am finding out that for me it is more about the person than the gender. Of course, if I had never ventured and explored that far, I would probably still see my self as totally straight!
Love,
Michelia
"Genius is the recovery of childhood at will." Rimbaud
This topic is a hardy perennial on this site.
I know this view won't be popular, but I don't believe straight or gay exist as mutually exclusive categories any more than male or female.
In short, we're all bi but we're conditioned to plonk ourselves into one camp or t'other.
hugs for everyone!
Rachel x