Hey girls!
Recently my gg gf and i have been doing a lot of research for couples who the female is gg and the male is a crossdresser. My gf and i had been stable and shes supportive of my cding, but being initially attracted to male she has to take time to get used to me en fem. We follow rules that we agreed to so we can enjoy normal dating and also some cd girls time, trying to keep our relationship healthy and balanced. I would eventually like to have a family of my own and have kids, so im not considering trans or altering my body.
Sometimes my gf and I hit obstacles and cannot quite find any reference as to how to maintain relationship as a cder. I have been reading on cases in the forum, some of them are sad, either the cding habbit led to a divorce or a long time struggle between the husband and wife. We also read different books about cders who had a stable relationship or married, they are either ended up dressing full time or the wife sacrifice her happiness to let him do whatever he wanted. I cherish the relationship my gf and I have and we are constantly trying to find a way to keep our relationship healthy.
Since there are so little reference out there i am asking if any one here can offer us some guidelines. Is there anyone who is in years of stable relationship or marriage willing to share how to successfully achieve a balanced relationship? I'm sure my gf and I were not the only one here trying to find answers to this.