I have been under a lot of stress lately from work. I will not go into to detail but I contacted a consulor to talk about the situation my supervisors put me in. I told them that they were creating a hostile work environment by what they did and that was causing lots of stree for me. They never got back to me or took me serously about my concerns. In my third session of explaining what was making me so stressed , the woman asked me what I do to relieve some of this stress, drink, drugs, break things, I said No but I do crossdress at times and that calms me down. She was like so did you just start doing this or have you been dressing for a while. I had no intentions of speaking on this topic but it just came out and afte that a flow of questioins starting coming from her. I mean she wasn't putting me down , she just seemed very interested. When asked in the begining of which gender therpist I perfered, I said I felt more comfortable speaking with a woman. Do you think I subconsiously choose a woman just incase this type of question ever arose. I have 3 more paid sessions with her and she said , if you want to talk to me more after your free sessions are done, you will have to contact your insurance Co. about more treatment. I am serously think about taking some stress leave over this other co-worker. What suxs, is if I was a female and complained about being sexually harressed or touched or just felt uncomfortable they wouldn't hesitate to take action. and No, No one knows where I work that I dress except a close friend. I am wondering if I screwed up by saying this... Now I am stresses out about another thing, telling her that I enjoy crossdressing!!