Even though my wife is not accepting, we have reached an equilibrium where we are both happy. I am sure that she wishes it would all go away and I wish that she was open to more but that is not happening. So some of the unwritten "rules" that have evolved over the years. I can wear girl clothes all the time as long as i make sure that:
1. cute clothes are to be avoided.
2. nothing that looks like boobs
3. don't even think about shaving in non traditional areas
4. capri pants are just fine
5. skirts are not
6. scoop necks are fine
7. spaghetti straps are not
8. shoes...don't even go there
9. non-cute purses are just fine
10. night gowns work
11. dresses don't
I am sure that we all have issues that we can live with. Right now this is my reality and it is working just fine. What is your reality?