I've noticed subtle differences, but my character is mostly consistant. I'm a bit more open and talkative enfemme.
I've noticed subtle differences, but my character is mostly consistant. I'm a bit more open and talkative enfemme.
Mine definitely changes, I usually have a better interaction with women when dressed.
Work on your elegance,
and beauty will follow.
Nope, I'm the same person no matter what I'm wearing.
Some causes of crossdressing you've probably never even considered: My TG biography at:http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/...=1#post1490560
There's an addendum at post # 82 on that thread, too. It's about a ten minute read.
Why don't we understand our desire to dress, behave and feel like a girl? Because from childhood, boys are told that the worst possible thing we can be, is a sissy. This feeling is so ingrained into our psyche, that we will suppress any thoughts that connect us to being or wanting to be feminine, even to the point of creating separate personalities to assign those female feelings into.
Funny thing happened when I was out this week end. We where at a lesbian Club there where about 12 of us Gurls and when the dancing started I found my self dancing in a very femenine way, I moved my hips and moved with some of the same sexy moves the real women where doing. I have never tried to imulate this side of my femenine side. I actualy had a couple of girls that kinda joined in with me. Very cool I might ad.
I would say no I am the same except more confident. My wife would disagree, she says that I change.
I definitely get more girly and femme. More than a bit sassy, too
I can't play the guitar when en femme (long fake nails make it impossible).
So I guess I'm Less Paul, More Paula. haha
I'm more human when I'm Arlene.
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Andrea, the fact is that my two gendered selves can get a little unnerving at times. My wife has actually become a bit concerned at times when Tina sends notes making fun of my male self (all in fun but it wasn't clear that was the case). Tina enjoys chickflicks and my male self can't even be in the same room!!! Tina is fastidious and there have been times when my male self just couldn't get motivated to do some intricate work that was simply busy work and needed to be done. My wife suggested that Tina might be more inclined to get it done, and after transforming she made short work of it. It's the Tina part of me that can concentrate and focus to the exclusion of almost any outside "bother". She really doesn't like it when the male me is not tidy.
It certainly makes life interesting when my wife can talk with each of us about the other! Transgendered life is certainly not boring!
This is an incredibly bizarre thread.
Yes, I definitely change when dressed. My mannerisms and voice and maybe even the way I think........
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Do I purr like a kitten when I wear underwear or costume up? No, but I do when I am tucked and especially with a pretty bra or corset on and a wig. That spontaneous heat, no deliberation needed.
But just when I think I am looking good my dear wife who helps me with grooming and dressing and photography reminds me how unladylike my posture and body language are. I try to follow her instruction, deliberately! I don't even want to think about my voice when it comes to deliberation.
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Maybe you can feel more at ease with yourself. But wouldn't a big change make me kind of schizophrenic or bipolar?
Short answer, no. I'm still the same. In fact my wife comments that that is one of the things that is "reassuring" is that I don't suddenly change. Although she does say that it would be nice if I didn't keep all the gross male habits!