I Honestly don't wan't to come off as melodramatic or mopey, but I'm in a constant Love/Hate relationship with myself.
When I am in "guy mode", I hate my fem side and wish it never existed. I'm embarrassed and ashamed of it, and if people even bring up "Courtney" in conversation, I quickly change the subject. (I am aware that this is a bad attitude to have, but I'm being honest.)
When I am in "fem mode" , I'm happier, I physically feel healthier (if that makes any sense), and for some reason I feel closer to my wife. But there is that reminder in the back of my head that what I do is widely considered taboo....I get p**sed off that I will never be fully accepted as me as a whole being....so I revert back to safe "guy mode"
Don't get me wrong...I like being a guy...But I'm just sick of going though this back and forth cycle of frustration and depression. Not sure what to do.