I believe you as supportive a wife as you are have every right to vent about your situation, your husband is a very lucky man for having a wife that allows him to express himself. I am aware of how ridiculous I feel, society has made it clear that if you are different then there is something very wrong with you and our lifestyle is a Huge NoNo. The fact that you allow your spouse to share his pastime with others is a great gesture. I believe he is torn between his role as yous partner and his need to be feminine, we are a selfish kind, and sometimes we seek approval from our spouses because deep inside we realize we are taking some very important principals of marriage with our dressing. Best of licks to you both and thank you for being involve.