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    Not Bi when dressed..

    Since the Bi when dressed threads are so popular I thought I'd start a not Bi when dressed thread. Here's your chance since polls aren't allowed.

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    For a number of years I've posted here and felt that I was Bi only when dressed, but over the weekend I reviewed my life since a very early age and finally realized that I had Bi tendencies for a long time.

    Thank you Marleena for starting this thread..Love ya darlin.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MsArlene View Post
    For a number of years I've posted here and felt that I was Bi only when dressed, but over the weekend I reviewed my life since a very early age and finally realized that I had Bi tendencies for a long time.

    Thank you Marleena for starting this thread..Love ya darlin.
    You're quite welcome Arlene! I doubt if anybody will judge you, I know I won't. I have a feeling this thread won't be as popular though..

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    Quote Originally Posted by MsArlene View Post
    For a number of years I've posted here and felt that I was Bi only when dressed, but over the weekend I reviewed my life since a very early age and finally realized that I had Bi tendencies for a long time.

    Thank you Marleena for starting this thread..Love ya darlin.
    Ditto for me, in fact I am in a relationship with both a man and a woman, he and I were friends back when I was doing the matcho but submissive thing and she was his token GF now this might sound crude but we keep her around she's a great cook and housekeeper and well we just have lots of fun.......

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    now i am lost and very confused..lol....i'm just a basic ****...so my wife says...and she would know......fun thread

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    fair enough. How about somewhat bi when in college or maybe I was just experimenting

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    Its a great feeling to know that men find me attractive but sexually I just have no desire to be with a man at all.

    Kinda makes me want to ask the next lesbian cpl I see while out what they think about men complimenting or trying to hit on them.

    It always boost the ego when anyone gives me a nice smile

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    never Bi, just 'lesbian'

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    I am only into guys while "dressed".

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marleena View Post
    Since the Bi when dressed threads are so popular I thought I'd start a not Bi when dressed thread. Here's your chance since polls aren't allowed.
    All I am going to say is.......... you're missing out
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    I don't really like being around men much at all, dressed or not. I want to surround myself with women to the point that I want to emulate their beauty.

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    Well, I've never fully dressed, or gone out in public, never mind getting compliments from a male, so....I don't know.

    Don't think so though.
    "Normal is what you get when you average out the weirdness that everybody has." Quote from my SO

    Normal is a setting on a washing machine, or another word for average.

    The fact that I wear a skirt as a male should not be taken as a comment on what you do, or do not wear, or how you wear it.

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    I'm not bi when dressed at all! I'm pretty gay when naked

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    Ok.. we do see a lot of these "bi" when dressed" threads, but is one simply bi because they think about it? I would think that in order to be bi... you'd have to actually do it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Ok.. we do see a lot of these "bi" when dressed" threads, but is one simply bi because they think about it? I would think that in order to be bi... you'd have to actually do it.
    Good point! Just thinking about it makes it a fantasy..

    That would require a new thread.lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Ok.. we do see a lot of these "bi" when dressed" threads, but is one simply bi because they think about it? I would think that in order to be bi... you'd have to actually do it.
    Actually, I would argue that sexual orientation == what you're attracted to.
    I'm still a virgin (yeah lol, keep laughing) but I know that I'm not straight since I'm not attracted to women in that way.

    I don't need to have sex to know which way I swing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Ok.. we do see a lot of these "bi" when dressed" threads, but is one simply bi because they think about it? I would think that in order to be bi... you'd have to actually do it.
    I know! We need more labels!

    Three categories of bi:

    1. Really, really Bi. (RRB)

    2. Wanna be Bi. (WBB)

    3. Fantasy only Bi. (FOB)
    Reine

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    Bi Only When Crossdressed?

    Quote Originally Posted by kellycan27 View Post
    Ok.. we do see a lot of these "bi" when dressed" threads, but is one simply bi because they think about it? I would think that in order to be bi... you'd have to actually do it.
    I largely agree, but I would add a refinement or two. As usually understood, sexual orientation refers to an enduring pattern of attraction — emotional, romantic, sexual, or some combination of these — to the other sex, the same sex, both sexes, or neither. Clearly, then, a person could be bisexual in orientation, yet never have been sexually active with women and/or with men.

    But I completely agree that crossdressers who say, “I’m bi only when dressed as a woman,” have that idea because they’re more aware of it when they are crossdressed than when they are not. We are aware or unaware of many aspects of ourselves based on circumstances and the stimuli present in the immediate situation. I’m largely unaware of my preferences in music when I’m engaged in a project at work; but that doesn’t mean that I no longer have any preferences in music. That part of my personality does not vanish because I go to work in the morning. The situation affects immediate awareness; but it does not alter enduring patterns of preference or attraction. That applies to sexual preferences as much as to musical preferences.

    Speaking of which, long live the Beatles!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marleena View Post
    Since the Bi when dressed threads are so popular I thought I'd start a not Bi when dressed thread. Here's your chance since polls aren't allowed.
    Not bi in any sense.

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    Lesbian when Dressed (Though my wife is a bit butch).
    Rex is Asexual

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    I AM BI and Love in it!
    I am who I am...I am very happy with who I am! I am transgender! Time for others to deal with it or get out of my way!

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    I have been confused about all the "Bi" or not threads. So being a good girl I decided to look up up the definition.

    BIFURCATED (adjective)
    The adjective BIFURCATED has 1 sense:

    1. divided into or made up of two parts


    Wow............ who knew........ I might be biforcated One part CD the other part DVD.
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    Isn't sex easier when NOT dressed?? Just sayin!

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