Page 2 of 2 FirstFirst 12
Results 26 to 46 of 46

Thread: wives and shared tastes

  1. #26
    Exploring NEPA now Cheryl T's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2006
    Location
    Northeast Pa near NJ and NY
    Posts
    10,491
    Yes, we share clothing all the time. Sometimes she will buy a pair of shoes and find they are a little too tight so she asks me to wear them a bit to stretch them for her as I'm just a bit larger. As a matter of fact she's planning on wearing my gown to our support group Xmas party this year.
    I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !

  2. #27
    Senior Member MissTee's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Deep South
    Posts
    1,504
    Yes for purses, jewelry, nail polish, etc. We're way far apart in size so can't share clothing. That said, we do love to occasionally dress alike with matching outfits in our own sizes.

  3. #28
    Super Moderator DAVIDA's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jul 2006
    Location
    Augusta, Ga.
    Posts
    39,397
    The only thing that I have that Jean can wear is jewelry, not to include rings.
    And she borrows mine.

  4. #29
    Silver Member linda allen's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2010
    Posts
    4,924
    My wife has given me many items that either don't fit her anymore or she is just tired of. I started out with her panties and bras. Now we each have our own.

    We shop together now so we pick out stuff for each other. We are about the same size in tops (she has a higher boob to chest ratio than me), but not in bottoms. Not close in shoes.

    She borrowed one of my blouses recently when we went out to dinner with friends.
    [SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda

  5. #30
    Senior Member Diversity's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    1,038
    I would give anything to have my wife take this kind of interest. As it stands I live in seclusion. I have opened up to her, but she wants no part in this side of me. So I go to the restroom to take off my pantyhose, so she does not see anything, and am settled into dressing when she is not around. It's depressing, but the marriage is worth it.
    Enjoy the experiences you have with your SO. They not be ideal, but at least she is accepting.
    Good luck to you.
    Di

  6. #31
    Member
    Join Date
    Nov 2010
    Posts
    181
    The other day we were in Costco of all places. They had Ellen Tracy skirts. I am typically not a fan of "pull-on" skirts, but my wife bought a gray one in my size anyhow. When we got home, she said "go try on that skirt that I bought you, I want to see you in it". I was like "wow", that has never happened! So I said that I was not just going to try it on, I would need a few minutes...I grabbed a black fitted top, off-black pantyhose, patent pumps and the rest of my stuff....Once I was all made up, I slipped the skirt on and it fit perfectly! I then got a comment "it fits good"...If that is as good as it gets...I am good with that!

  7. #32
    Senior Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Posts
    1,308
    Loads of times, till in the end she tries to convince me she bought it in the first place and it was always hers! We share most things except shoes, My feet are too darn big

  8. #33
    Member pinklilly211's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jun 2006
    Location
    Negaunee Mi
    Posts
    134
    Yup, just recently lost a pair of jeans to my sweetie!!
    Lilly

  9. #34
    New Member StaceyXOXOX's Avatar
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    28
    Well i havnt told my yet, but when i do and if she accepts it, i would love to share with her. Are sizes are a little different (i only know this caused i try on her stuff). That being said are taste are similar on some things she just doesnt know it.

  10. #35
    Member AlanaG's Avatar
    Join Date
    Feb 2012
    Location
    Pacific Northwest, North of Seattle
    Posts
    262
    My wife has very different tastes in clothing than I do. I like the silky smooth feeling fabrics, the more "feminine" types of clothing, including skirts, heels & hosiery . My wife is a "tom boy" type. She is comfortable in jeans, t-shirt, regular shoes, and cotton panties. I have never seen her out in public in high heels and a skirt.

  11. #36
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Apr 2009
    Location
    On the western shores of Puget Sound across from Seattle, Washington
    Posts
    59
    The answer for my long time bride and me is a mixed one:
    We are a world apart in terms of dress, skirt, blouse and shoe sizes. She is a size 6 in blouses and dresses and I wear a size 24W/3X. So there is very little opportunity to swap these things except on a "conceptual basis." If I buy an identical garment in my size it is because I typically follow her lead (with permission of course.)
    Accessories - yes, across the board - yes, including purses, jewelry, scarves, fragrance, make up and nail polish. For these items I am usually in the lead because I am less timid about spending for first class items in this category.
    Hair - She loves my diverse collection of wigs and will occasionally experiment with a new look. We both find this to be fun, fun, fun!
    We frequently shop together for girly things and always share fashion ideas. We love the interaction, and each of us brings the other ideas, opinions and encouragement. Just to positively reinforce the right mind set - shared girly things do not decrement either her budget or mine - these are "budget waiver items."
    Lastly, we love being "sisters-in-law" out shopping for "girly-girl" things and do this frequently. We enthusiastically dedicate more than a day at a time for such adventures and in fact have gone on three day weekend excursions with only this kind of shopping as an objective.
    Last edited by Bobbi McCarthy; 09-21-2012 at 11:03 AM.

  12. #37
    Banned Read only
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    Posts
    6,335
    Yes, my wife wears some of my dresses and tops. I am much bigger than her, but belts do the job. I wish she would wear more of my things, the I would get to see what kind of outfits she makes with them.

  13. #38
    Silver Member Joanne f's Avatar
    Join Date
    Mar 2007
    Location
    UK
    Posts
    3,610
    Nope , it works the other way around for me as I lay claim to her things , problem is she is a lot smaller than me and has younger tastes so I have to end up giving it back ( she has said that I can borrow anything I like )
    [SIGPIC][/SIGPIC]Joanne

  14. #39
    Member Michelle 2's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2011
    Location
    Tucson, Az
    Posts
    271
    The only thing that my spouse borrows from me is jewelery. She is a size 16-18 and I am a size 10-12. I do not think she is thrilled that I am a smaller size than she is, and trust me when I say I have heard about it from time to time. All I can say is she loves her donuts and I dont even look at them.

  15. #40
    Silver Member STACY B's Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2012
    Location
    South Miss
    Posts
    2,908
    My wife DON'T like my taste ,,She says I dress like an OLD LADY ,,,LOL,,,, Atleast it's a LADY ,,,LOL,,,,
    Yull Find Out !!! lol,,,,

  16. #41
    Aspiring Member outhiking's Avatar
    Join Date
    May 2012
    Location
    Rocky Mountains
    Posts
    871
    Although we don't share, we do have similar tastes. I suppose that's one of the things that attracted us to each other. I'm more on the feminine side than she is though, especially when it comes to dresses and skirts.

  17. #42
    Platinum Member Beverley Sims's Avatar
    Join Date
    Nov 2011
    Location
    Lowestoft UK. Beverley was here.
    Posts
    30,955
    Things only migrate through my wardrobe after the laundry is done.
    Work on your elegance,
    and beauty will follow.

  18. #43
    Member
    Join Date
    Aug 2012
    Location
    Coon Rapids, MN
    Posts
    162
    Quote Originally Posted by Rachel Morley View Post
    We share .... except that if she has bought something for herself and it's on her side of the closet I have to ask permission to wear it (she usually says yes) however she grabs and wears anything she wants to from my side of the closet without asking ...
    This is so true, I have to ask my SO if I can wear this or that, but she goes thru my drawers and closet putting together her outfit without asking. Then my things end up with her things and I have to ask to go thru her drawers even to get my things. Lately I have become more brave and started pulling things out of her drawers and closet without asking. Don't know how long that will last but it's a great way to expand your wardrobe.

  19. #44
    Junior Member
    Join Date
    Sep 2012
    Location
    New England
    Posts
    49
    My wife and I wear roughly the same size, so she borrows my clothes a lot. She has not yet been comfortable with me wearing her clothes. But, she recently gave me "right of first refusal" on some items she was weeding out of her closet, so I hope that's a good first step.

  20. #45
    Silver Member Tina B.'s Avatar
    Join Date
    Jan 2007
    Location
    North Coast of California
    Posts
    4,230
    Now days we are different sizes, and out taste are totally different, years gone by we used to share any and all of both of our wardrobes, now we just share necklaces, but neither of us would borrow anything with out asking. But when we did share, it was clearly stated, if you wear my stuff, yours is fair game.
    Tina B.
    Magic is the art of changing consciousness at will.

  21. #46
    Junior Member terri_sandal's Avatar
    Join Date
    Apr 2012
    Location
    Melbourne Australia
    Posts
    34
    My wife and I are about the same size and share all clothes and shoes although I bought a pair of sandals and she claimed them and it's taken me ages to get them back but I did get to see her in them alot . we have very similar tastes in most things so it can work to both our advantages ...but if she buys something I am not allowed to wear it before her which is fair but if she has something nice which I like it can be quite painful waiting for her to wear it so I can

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •  


Check out these other hot web properties:
Catholic Personals | Jewish Personals | Millionaire Personals | Unsigned Artists | Crossdressing Relationship
BBW Personals | Latino Personals | Black Personals | Crossdresser Chat | Crossdressing QA
Biker Personals | CD Relationship | Crossdressing Dating | FTM Relationship | Dating | TG Relationship


The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs.
We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.

Browse Crossdressers By State