Okay so I'm just sorta wondering about gay CDs and relationships.

I consider myself gay only because, when they're not hidden away, I have boy parts and I prefer to be with men. I find it's easy to get sex or a hook up from men who identify as gay or may just be very horny. However, now I wish to have an actual relationship with another person.

Now my only problem is finding a man who is actually attracted to my fem look. Most men I've encountered seem to want me to be something I'm not which is more masculine. Any advice on finding the right guy?? 0.o
and would he even identify as gay???