My wife started to go to my therapy sessions with me and its been really good. What I realized was my wife views me and Janelle as two different people. My therapist asked her if she wants to get to know Janelle better and she said yes. I told her that Janelle and me are the same person, I'm just letting her shine throw. I do understand how she feels, when I'm dressed I'm let all of her shine throw which is more than I usually do. My question is does your SO view you and your fem self as two different people or one in the same?
Hugs Janelle