I stopped shaving my legs a couple of weeks ago. My wife of course knew I shaved them, but she thought that shaving my legs would lessen my desire to dress. Well, it hasn't. The feeling of nylons on my freshly shaved legs has always made me feel good.
About a month ago, in therapy with my wife, she allowed I could dress in the computer room only, when she wasn't home, no pictures to be left on the computer. I agreed. The only place I could keep my clothes was in the computer room closet. DADT was a marvelous step forward for me. I was ecstatic.
We are going on a cruise with some friends in November. I decided to stop shaving my legs so that I will be suitably furry then. She has not yet noticed. I intend to start shaving them, and the rest of my sasquatch-like body, after we return.
I know the furry legs are only temporary, but I hope it leads to increased happiness for her.
Would you undertake to give up some aspect of cross-dressing, that she might not notice, on the chance it would make your SO happier if she did?