Since I am rather large, 6'0", 180 lbs., it is important for me to de-emphathize certain aspects regarding body shape: Shoulders and hips are large and masculine in my case so tight bodice clothing become problematic. Clothing that accentuates a lean mid-drift and long legs are a positive. A muscular build can be feminine with the proper accouterments. Large and gaudy jewelry is bad form. Go for things that are less flamboyant. Colouring is major; do accent your eyes and hair colour. Try to be subtle as opposed to obvious.