Ah okay! I misunderstood that post!
Yeah, I guess you do have quite the personal dilemma. I don't even know what I would do in that situation.
It does seem like you have already begun to relive some of that pain... so maybe give it a chance for a little bit and see if they come around? Or run like hell from the music scene you used to be in and start fresh if you can? Different side of town? Different group of people? I don't know...