There are many reasons why we crossdress. I find the idea that some of us didn't receive the love and attention from our mothers that we needed causing us to hold and wear their clothes when we needed comfort quite plausible. In my case, a marriage to a woman who did not satisfy this need caused me to crossdress first with her clothes then on to my own. She knew I was doing this and for several reasons our marriage of over 25 years failed. Its catch 22 to find a girl while crossdressing but that expression "the more people I meet, the more I love my dog" rings true with my encounters with women. Many people use pets as comforting substitute for partners. I seem to be doing this with wearing women's clothes but it also turns most women off. Your thoughts on this. Thank you.