I was at this store just now just wearing women's uggs, jeans and a flanney. I was a guy (Jeff) there was 2 girls working and a gay guy, they were polite, but even the gay man (kid) was uncomfortable. do we have to pretend we are gay? if we do that, THEN WE REALLY ARE TRANSPARENT. Gay people are COOL, but what I dont understand, women LOVE THE GUY THATS GAY and just ignore us, totally. any advice? when a guy, just wear all guy clothes? women do find it strange, as a guy when i complement there shoes also. what kind of part time job can I get that allows social interaction on the job and just let EVREY BODY get to know me, then they wont have to try to understand, itll just click.