I am not sure how long she has been keeping this from me but I pressured her in to telling me last night. We were out with my kids and my wife's friend when we went to the Dress barn and Fashion Bug. Both my wife and her friend would find some thing and ask me if it would be some thing I would like to wear. They both would also ask the SA in help looking for things. After about 1 and a half hours in two stores, we walked away with a few skirts and tops. Thats when I found out the secret....She was shopping for me, sort of....she also was picking out clothes she would love to borrow from me.