I read this in another thread and wondered about it:
"I have never been able to get my head around any reason why a straight CDer like ***** would want to use an en-femme name. The way I see it is that this immediately introduces a third party into the marriage. You should not have to think of your hubby as HER. Simply as HIM in a dress."
Most of us here use female names on the forum. I've been dropping hints to try to get my wife to call me by a female name (not "Linda", but that's another story altogether) when I am dressed as a female. I would love it if she did this. It would be an expression of acceptance. She has mentioned it a couple times, but she is not at the point of saying "Xxxx, come in the kitchen, I need your help."
Understand that I have no feelings of actually being female, transgebder, etc., just a straight crossdresser.
So - Does your wife or SO call you by a female name when you are presenting as a female?