My wife and I went to dinner with another couple, good friends. I was sitting across from the other woman, my wife across from the other man. The other woman commented about my earrings (little gold balls, the starter or piercing earrings). They had seen them before so it was no big deal this time.
She was wearing a nice pair of dangle earrings, probably 1 1/2 " long. I started to tell her how nice they looked, but I thought to myself that I better not say anything about them. "Guys" don't notice things like that and certainly wouldn't say anything about them.