I've noticed, on this forum, a recurring trait. Alot of us have mentioned that they were 'born to crossdress'. by that I mean, naturally feminine, slight, very little body hair, inate feminine mannerisms, instinctively sit cross-legged, female curves. Then there's anti-male traits. Hating sports, rejecting male companionship, etc.
I know this has been explored as 'nature vs. nurture', 'chicken or egg'. Also, does it differ if you consider yourself CD, or any of the 'trans' categories. What's your opinion, is there a genetic pre-disposition to dressing, or is it luck of the draw? Are some people just lucky to have been born with a smaller frame, less body hair etc?
For a long time I thought it was just my Nordic heritage that I only have to shave my legs every three weeks, my arms once a season, and never my chest. I despised school sports, loved playing Barbie with my sister, and would choose a pink car over any other on the lot. So I've wondered, was this part of some pre-determined cosmic plan? Did my mother breast feed me too long? Or maybe just the big bang theory of all practical jokes (if you've heard my femme voice you would realize that God definately has a sense of humor).
I have developed a category for myself- Grudgingly genetic male, who missed the boat on transition, so eventually settled happily for full time CDing.
Was our very fibre built this way, or did we develop into it?- Celeste