Well I have been on here for a little while and most of you know that my wife is the one to get me started in crossdressing and having fun with it also. Now I found out some of my wifes history, to include lots of sex with other guys. We met in college, became sweethearts then married 22 years ago. She had told me she had not been with other guys. Now I have read the proof in her own handwriting. As a young teen she did this, and claims not to have sexual intercourse with the guys. For other reasons I believe her on this. But I am having a hard time with the lie and the thoughts of her with others. She was and is the only woman or man I have had sex with. My son says it would be stupid to divorce after more than 36 years as boyfriend and girlfriend and marriage. What should I do? Your thoughts on this would be greatly appreciated.