First time out in a skirt

[rita63]

I went to Toronto for an overnighter and unlike the trip in June I remembered my money cards. Fri afternoon I went shoping, some books, some makeup, a styling comb (I forgot mine) Then to Wildside botique (a trans store) looking for a skirt and a top. Paddy the owner was welcoming and soon I was down to my bra and panties and she was bringing me clothes. No one had ever sen me in femme undies befor. With her help I found a black pencil skirt and a red top that fit well and suited my shape I bought some stockings and a waist clincher as well.
When I got back to my hotel I realized I had only picked up the bag with my other purchases in it. I hurried back in a cab and retreived my new outfit. Paddy was wonderful! She insisted it was her fault and gave me some money toward the cab. She is such a lady and I will be back there.
Anyhow later that night I dressed fully with makeup and my hair styled, its a little longer than my avitar now. I went out into the cold November evening and walked down Church street for several blocks and returned. On the return I got one horn honk and several men followed me with their eyes. As a recovering alcohalic I didn't go into the trans bar but I will some time with friends. Maybe the one in my home town.
When I got back to my room I felt invigourated, I had walked down a busy city street dressed as myself, I still feel liberated.
On the way to the train the next day I stopped at Sears and bought a weeks worth of panties for daily wear. It was a day I will remember for the rest of my life and one I will repeat again.

hugs rita

[RainyNightGirl]

Congratulations Rita, its a great feeling. Nothing beats the click click of heels on a pavement and feel of cool air on legs in pantyhose.

[irishsissy]

Congrats Rita, And I can,t agree with RainyNightGirl enough there is nothing more overwellming than the sound of my heels on a hard surface and nice breeze blowing around my legs. I,ll never forget my first time I went out in public. It will stay in my memories for enterinity.

[AmyGaleRT]

You gals got that right! That's just like my first walk around the building in my heels...the "click, click, click" of my heels, the cool breeze against my nylon-covered legs, the gentle swish of my dress as I moved. I saw my shadow in one of the parking-lot lights as I went around, and it looked good, my image swaying back and forth as I moved forward. I didn't hurry, but kept a very deliberate pace. It made great practice and felt thrilling!

- Amy

[bridget thronton]

Nicely done Rita - good outing and nice account of it

[Cynthia Anne]

I love your story Rita! I think it's great that you got to be out and be yourself! Keep it up girl!!!!!!

[Beverley Sims]

You won't know yourself after a few more outings like this.
Go girl!

[Michelle (Oz)]

Sounds like a very enjoyable experience Rita with some challenges well handled.

[EllenJo]

Hugs right back to you Rita. What a grand experience with many more to come. You are my hero.
Love
EllenJo

[Ressie]

Sounds like you had a blast!

[I Am Paula]

Yes, Patty Aldridge is a sweety pie. I've known her for years. Her late husband Roxy Wildside was a good friend to all us girls as well. We spent many a Saturday night hitting the bars in Church St. Villiage. Glad you had a great time. If you think your recovery is stable enough, have a soda water in one of the bars. You'll meet some great girls on a Saturday.-Celeste

[imconfused92]

i have yet to walk in a pair of heels let alone buy a pair. ill have to start off small and work my way to my goal of a four inch heel!

[Diversity]

Congratulations, Rita! I am looking forward to the day, I have the opportunity to do what you have done. Thanks for sharing your experience with us.Di

[rita63]

Thanks for all the kind words and encouagement they make feel less alone and stronger.
Celeste any particular bar (s) please pm me the names I will be back.

hugs rita

[susangirl]

Great adventure Rita. It's fun to go out dressed and purchase new stuff and especially in such a extra friendly environment. I have been to Toronto a few times and gone out as Susan. This time of the year it can be so cold but that ok with me. Wearing a short coat and scarf with a skirt always is a winner. I think you will like wearing skirts, I love them. They seem to work better than dresses for me. Take care.