Hi all,
I will be getting married soon in a few months time. I have yet to tell my Fiancee about my crossdressing hobby. There are a number of times that I wanted to tell her but I am afraid she will be turn off by me. I love her alot.
The thing is I come from Asia where the culture is still pretty much conservative. Gay people for example are usually frown upon and the gay people don't admin that they are gay for fear of the social stigma. Such is the culture that I live in.
I know I am not gay but just like to crossdress. However, the portrayal of crossdresser as perverts is so prevalent in the media. Just a while ago, there was a case where a doctor crossdress as a school girl and flash to a girl. Such cases defintely paints a very bad picture of crossdresser as though we are freaks and perverts.
Ok all this doesn't help much. How should I tell her? Dropping hints? How can I get her to understand that they are people like us who are not mentally unsound or perverts but simply like to dress up?
very troubled over this indeed....any suggestions?