I desided to look up how to tuck sence One day I would like to go out as Cara and be passable. So found a few videos on it, one of which Showed how-to. And well I tryed it. I got my jewels to go into those socet things(after a few trys) I got the rest in between my legs and when I stood up there was a small jolt of pain. So I let everything go back into it's normal place. I believe I may have done something wrong. Has this happened to anyone else?
I can't lie to myself about who I am.
I would just keep trying until you get it right. You might be trying too hard.
Really though, with a pair of tight fitting panties, many outfits don't show the "bulge" anyway so you don't need to make it dissapear, just contain it somewhat.
[SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda
The pain was there and gone in a instant. I'm gonna try again later I'm just a little shocked for it. Sadly though Linda I need to cause I do like to wear nice snug jeans sometime while dressing and there is a bulge, but I don't notice a bulge when I've worn skirts and dresses, so I guess it just depends on what I'm wearing.
I can't lie to myself about who I am.
I don't do a full tuck, I just place the shaft between my legs. If I'm wearing something snug, I put on a pair of shaper panties. This rounds out the hips a bit and covers the buldge. You can get them at Walmart fairly cheeply. Good Luck.
Cara, it's ok for it to be weird at first, but if there's pain, you're doing something wrong. As each person's anatomy is slightly different, you have to use those tutorials as starting points, but ultimately come up with something that works for you. This is a situation where the old adage "no pain, no gain" DOES NOT apply...
Last edited by Jana; 11-12-2012 at 08:46 AM.
I used to think that too but I could never get a good hold with just tight panties. I tried taping and woa amazing, I still think it might fall out sometimes but it doesn't, I no longer have to worry about it at all. As for active I can attend exercise classes and have no issues with fallout, lumps or hurting.Originally Posted by Kate Simmons
Never did it, never will. Tucking is problematic for an active person like myself in any case.
Cara, you will get it with practice. After you can do it with tight panties and not have an issue try it with tape and you can wear ANY panties you want
At the top of the page there's a "sticky" thread (one that never goes away) on the subject of tucking. So far there have been 1,120 replies. Read through them and get some ideas.
[SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda
Heya.
I've tried a few times but get testicular discomfort instead, a shame really.
I wonder why the SPCA will cut them off dogs and cats for $50, but it's several thousand dollars for humans?
[SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda
I have never had to worry about it. A decen pair of panties is good enough for me in a skirt or dress, in leggings a girdle or a body shaper works fine.
I've read the sticky, not all of the replies obviously, but I'm gonna keep trying and try other things as well.
It's always good to hear all the advice I get here.
Cara
I can't lie to myself about who I am.
Read through at least the first 5-6 pages, the original poster made a change and there are 2 or 3 other methods mentioned also.
Never an issue for me. I've been tucking 24/7 for years now and it feels so awkward if I don't. Never experienced any pain as a result.
I don't wear women's clothes, I wear MY clothes !
I get a twinge sometimes if one of the boys pops loose.
Just do what feels comfortable. most times just pushing him down and back is good enough and your panties will do the rest.
Bobbi
Aint nothin gonna happen that aint supposed too!
I tuck as much as possible.I love the flat look no matter what iam wearing.I use one pair of panties to creat the flat look and wear another pair of cute ones on top.
Hi, I've been tucked all day today and not having any pain issues and have been wearing platform heels all day too. I bet my legs will hurt later but not my private parts..HaHa..Hugs Jaymee
I tried that, pushed them up into the sockets and tucked. they never did come back down and the rest shrank up and dropped off..(my voice changed too)
I'm just kidding! you will be fine. I really like the way being tucked feels.
Carpe Noctem
Cheyenne Hyde
"You may never exceed, your own expectations, of yourself"
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Fortunately I am small, so tucking is not necessary as a good pair of control panties works well.
I had an injury to one of my boys when I was in high school and needed a hydrocelectomy a couple of decades later. I am prone to epididymitis so tucking would be difficult at best in any case.
Miki
Think the pain was from your first time tucking. Make sure your reoaxed when you do it. Maybe just tck the boys up for a few to get use to the feeling. Then tuck the main part up. Ive found using a pantiliner is vedy helpful keeping everything in place.
Renee
Okay, how are you supposed to handle your balls if you don't like handling them?
Seriously I cringe at the thought since I grew up with lots of random pains in them so now I want nothing to do with purposely manipulating them.
Would a freezer pack work to get them 100% inside, then tape them up?
If you don't like handling your balls, you've got bigger problems than tucking. I suggest working on that first.
As for the freezer pack, it's hard to imagine, but why not just try it yourseldf and see if it works. I suspect it won't.
[SIGPIC]http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/image.php?type=sigpic&userid=82706&dateline=137762 0356[/SIGPIC]Linda
You're right, it didn't work.
Although replace "freezer pack" with "frozen pirogi" and "didn't work" with "frostbitten scrotum + didn't work".
I thought you were gonna say taking a painkiller helps! About 3 ibuprofen should reduce the swelling.
I tried tucking for a few minutes (for practice), but don't see myself doing it anymore. I am pretty active and I am finding that tight panties with or without pantyhose seems to work rather well for me. While I'll always have a "battle of the bulge", I will have to live with it, as it is who I am (male). Different styles of skirts and dresses will cover up the bulge in many cases. I am just going to enjoy being me, as I am, with a slight bulge.
Di
