Do you have a supportive SO that helps with your make up and fashion choices?
Do you have a “girlfriend (in the non-sexual context),” GG or another CD, that helps paint your toe nails and goes shopping with you?
Do you belong to a support group that meets on a regular schedule?
Is it a professional councilor or therapist?
Or are you all alone (with the exception of this site…)? If so, do you wish you had someone to talk to, or are you happy being a solitary cross dresser?