I have been going out for two years now, night clubs, friendly bars, etc. I went out in San Francisco, shopping district around Market and 4th, Nordstroms, Macys, and more. I dressed extra casual, skinny black pants, low heel boots, Ann Taylor top, and a finger tip long black coat. I consider myself passable by night, meaning at a distance and in the dark I pass, but definitely up close, not. I parked my car just outside of the shopping area. In SF the area changes quickly from nice shops to one block away corner stores with people hanging around outside in hoodies. That was were the free and easy parking was. I am past the point of paranoia of leaving the car, but I did not know what to expect. A few cat calls from the street people, expected. Then I visited a beauty supply store on Market, easily a sage place. Then Payless Shoes, they had a pair in my size and I bought, no issues. Then I walked onto the Nordstrom shopping center. I wa very surprised how easily the whole thing went. Really, no one paid much attention to me. I received a couple smiles from some girls. No unwanted attention or comments. The sales people treated me well. A great experience.