As the confidence grows, and my desire with it, the idea of letting people know where I'm headed grows too. I have started to dip my toe in the proverbial waters, so to speak. Still a "part time girl" for now, but, the goal is to start to move towards full time. Kind of difficult to start the conversation--as no one that really knows me has any clue. I've been visiting locations, when fully "dressed", that I frequent in my usual day to day routines. These are people that know me, but just as a customer, or, sometimes work related dealings. So, I have presented myself as female, and the reaction has been very positive. So far,so good, and I treat this as kind of "practice", for later. These are places near my house also, so, the chance of running into someone that I do know is there. I guess that is one way to start the conversation! I am prepared for that, should it happen--and I guess I kind of want that to happen--I don't know! I would love to hear if anyone else has tried this approach, or, your thought's on it.
vikki