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Just visiting
Hi guys,
I was in the neighborhood so I thought I'd stop by. Actually, I posed this question over at the Girl's Club and it was suggested I take my question and...........any, it would be interesting to hear what the other side thinks. and if not, I promise to go and to sin no more.
I was pondering while sitting in traffic today. Whether we all like it or not we were al born men. Men tend to be more visually stimulated while women tend to be more emotionally aroused. Many of our main motivations for crossdressing is we love the look of female clothers, makeup, hair,etc as well as the emotional well being it gives us. Do FTM's think the opposite. Do they dress to satisfy a primarily emotional need, with the clothing secondary? Am I even making sense?
B.
Last edited by Sharon; 11-29-2005 at 08:52 PM.
Reason: c&p'd Brenda's question from MtF
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It would help if you included the question
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I was pondering while sitting in traffic today. Whether we all like it or not we were al born men. Men tend to be more visually stimulated while women tend to be more emotionally aroused. Many of our main motivations for crossdressing is we love the look of female clothers, makeup, hair,etc as well as the emotional well being it gives us. Do FTM's think the opposite. Do they dress to satisfy a primarily emotional need, with the clothing secondary? Am I even making sense?
That Is the Question.
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oysters = kneecaps
Hmmm. Interesting question.
I do very much go for the visual appeal, however not being a crossdresser but a transgenderist, there is also, of course, the primary emotional core. If I were a crossdresser, with no body-brain confict, I would probably think differently about the whole situation.
I would say that the visual helps satisfy an emotional need, and the emotional feeds directly into what I want to get out of the visual. Does that make sense?
Yes-- socks! Run out again! Why is it that no matter how many millions of pairs of socks I buy, I never seem to have any? They just... disappear. Honestly, you'd think someone was coming in here, stealing the damn things, and selling them off. . . For me, socks are like sex: tons of it about, and I never seem to get any.
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Good answer, Thanks. I didn't take into acoount even the subset of transgender vs simply crossdressing. That's a good point.
BC
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Becoming femme every day
Personally, I get excited by the physically wearing the clothes and make-up. However, as I dress I tend to find the emotions building and find my self slipping to the role. From there it is all emoton so I guess it really both reasons why I love to crossdress.
Hugs & Wet Kisses
Jenn
Yahoo IM: Jennifercd_NJ
Bye for now
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