I notice in the picture gallery, a lot of the comments are "sexy" and a lot of the photos are what I would consider sexy (especially some of the photos of younger members). For me, the 'sexy' boat sailed a long time ago. And now I go out as a pretty homely fifty-something woman. Maybe this is somewhat akin to the 'passing' vs 'blending' discussion, but I wonder how many here really strive for a sexy appearance.