Thank you ladies for your thoughtful replies. There is another web sight called Gender Fluid (Labels are for Soup Cans - Coming Out). It is a very cool accepting web site but everybody on it seems to be very young and being 66 years old I am more at home posting here. I don''t need a label because my lesbianism is a state of mind - one that I am very much at peace with and fulfilled by. Because of the very rural area where I live and my size (including size 14 feet) I don't go out dressed but if it ever becomes possible I wouldn't worry about what people labeled me. I'd just enjoy expressing the woman in me - like I do at home with my sweet lady when she is my lesbian partner. Really it's all semantics that don't really matter. It's all about being true to yourself and your partner and Mother Earth. Peace from the Missouri Ozarks, Stephanie G